One of the common phrases you hear here in Thailand is "jai yen yen" - literally "cool heart". The ability to keep your cool is highly valued in Thai culture and Thais very rarely let their anger or impatience show.
The phrase "Jai yen yen" is frequently used to mean "take it easy" or "chill out" but it also encompasses a whole philosophy of life for Thai people - consideration and respect for others manifested in an avoidance of confrontation or expression of negative emotions. Basically, if there is a storm brewing in you, you keep it to yourself and don't let the clouds burst.
I am not naturally "jai yen" at the best of times . . . . . and recently even less so - maybe because I am hitting that wonderful midlife hormonal imbalance, or maybe because we are moving this week (more about this in another post) or maybe because my kids are now out of school and adjusting to being together all day!
Anyway, I admire the Thai ability to stay cool and composed in stressful situations, to smile even when they're annoyed and to control the storm brewing within. Whilst I don't necessarily think that holding in one's emotions is healthy, I know that self-control is a good thing, a gift of His spirit and something I want more of in my life.
It has got me reflecting on my experience of different cultures around the world, and how there is such diversity in the varied strengths of people groups and cultures.
When I lived in America, I remember being amazed at the generosity of the American people - to varying degrees of course but I think that generosity is a value esteemed in American culture and one which I have admired and learned from. In Mexico, it was their joy that stood out, their capacity to celebrate no matter what the circumstances and always with flare and color! And then I think of my own culture and the loyalty and faithfulness of Brits, who might be slow to warm to you, but once they're with you, they're with you for life!
Self-control, joy, generosity and faithfulness - all of these are manifestations of God's Spirit in a person, and in His wisdom, He has spread these gifts widely amongst the cultures and the peoples of the world. I don't believe any one culture has a monopoly on the character of Jesus or even that the fullness of His grace can be experienced inside any one culture alone. We have so much to learn from one another and a whole lot of His beauty to be discovered in those who are different to us.
I'm grateful to have lived in each of these places and to know friends from these cultures (and more) who teach me what it means to live according to the Spirit. And this week, I'm thankful for Thailand and their "jai yen yen" lifestyle which I get to observe and learn from on a daily basis. I know I have a long way to go in mastering self-control. . . . so I think I might need to stay for a few years yet!
The phrase "Jai yen yen" is frequently used to mean "take it easy" or "chill out" but it also encompasses a whole philosophy of life for Thai people - consideration and respect for others manifested in an avoidance of confrontation or expression of negative emotions. Basically, if there is a storm brewing in you, you keep it to yourself and don't let the clouds burst.
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| Rainy season clouds, Chiang Mai |
I am not naturally "jai yen" at the best of times . . . . . and recently even less so - maybe because I am hitting that wonderful midlife hormonal imbalance, or maybe because we are moving this week (more about this in another post) or maybe because my kids are now out of school and adjusting to being together all day!
Anyway, I admire the Thai ability to stay cool and composed in stressful situations, to smile even when they're annoyed and to control the storm brewing within. Whilst I don't necessarily think that holding in one's emotions is healthy, I know that self-control is a good thing, a gift of His spirit and something I want more of in my life.
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| Plant pot "jai yen", Wat Phakao, Chiang Mai |
It has got me reflecting on my experience of different cultures around the world, and how there is such diversity in the varied strengths of people groups and cultures.
When I lived in America, I remember being amazed at the generosity of the American people - to varying degrees of course but I think that generosity is a value esteemed in American culture and one which I have admired and learned from. In Mexico, it was their joy that stood out, their capacity to celebrate no matter what the circumstances and always with flare and color! And then I think of my own culture and the loyalty and faithfulness of Brits, who might be slow to warm to you, but once they're with you, they're with you for life!
Self-control, joy, generosity and faithfulness - all of these are manifestations of God's Spirit in a person, and in His wisdom, He has spread these gifts widely amongst the cultures and the peoples of the world. I don't believe any one culture has a monopoly on the character of Jesus or even that the fullness of His grace can be experienced inside any one culture alone. We have so much to learn from one another and a whole lot of His beauty to be discovered in those who are different to us.
I'm grateful to have lived in each of these places and to know friends from these cultures (and more) who teach me what it means to live according to the Spirit. And this week, I'm thankful for Thailand and their "jai yen yen" lifestyle which I get to observe and learn from on a daily basis. I know I have a long way to go in mastering self-control. . . . so I think I might need to stay for a few years yet!
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